Code of Conduct

MAYBE means NO. I DON'T KNOW means NO. You NEED consent before any touching or play occurs. 

It doesn't matter if you are in an adult swinger club, be aware of how you present yourself. Foul language, pick-up lines, or innuendos can come across aggressive, especially by new members. Save the sex talk for a group or circle of friends who welcome that type of conversation. 

You may find yourself in a situation where you do not want to proceed with playing. This is fully acceptable but you should be considerate of other people's feelings by letting them know in a respectful and kind manner; a simple gesture of kindness can go a long way. This goes both ways as well. If you feel that the couple you are with is uncomfortable, be open to letting them move on without making them feel bad about their decision. 

Always ask first, even if you see someone else touching it doesn't mean that you have permission.

Approach the significant other and treat him or her with respect. It is considered polite to talk to BOTH partners. Be patient and polite during the evening.

If you are interested in playing with someone, let him or her know in an inviting way. If they are interested, they will respond positively. If they are not, never ask them why and don't ask a second time. Don't harass the ladies. Also keep in mind, masturbating in public is creepy behavior. 

Be aware of your own personal grooming. Persons with bad breath, body odor, or uncleanliness will have a hard time finding other partners or couples. So be Hygienic. Remember to bathe or shower before attending events. 

When you are done using an area, don't forget to clean up after yourself. Dispose of condoms, wrappers, towelettes, etc. If something happens to make a mess and it's not easy to clean up, please inform someone from the staff immediately. We are more than happy to help. Before exiting a room after playing, please pull a corner of the sheet back to alert staff that the bed needs fresh linens placed. 

Excessive drinking is frowned upon in the lifestyle. Drink responsibly and in moderation so that you can enjoy yourself, have good memories, and can come back for more if you choose. We reserve the right to take away your alcohol if we see that you are drinking excessively. 

Not only is it rude, but it will get you permanently banned from The Cottage. We do NOT tolerate this type of behavior. If the door is closed, do not open it. If the members are okay with you watching, the chain will be up for you to watch quietly. No cheering or encouragement from the sidelines please. 

Cell phones may be used throughout the club. Pictures are only allowed in the "Picture Area".  Pictures or videos are not allowed outside of this area. Failure to comply with this rule will get you suspended or removed permanently from the club. 

If at any time you break any of the rules, you will be escorted out of the club and your membership could be suspended or revoked. No refunds are given if you are asked to leave the club. It is a privilege to be invited into a Lifestyle club, so please don't jeopardize your privilege.