Friends of The Cottage

For nearly 25 years, SLS.com and Swinglifestyle.com have been integral to the lifestyle community, serving as a place for people to connect, explore, and share experiences.  

You may be surprised at the amount of open-minded people that are out there, looking to have an adventure with you. Join our community for free, and find new relationships you never knew were possible! All of your fantasies are inside, in one place. 

We are a social group hosting lifestyle events and regular meet and greets in the Frederick, MD area. If you are looking for like-minded friends to share in some fun times, join us at our monthly meet and greets at a local venue. 

You have to be invited to our page on Facebook by someone already in the group.

Diva’s Lair Lair (noun): a secluded, hidden retreat — a place where freedom, confidence, and connection thrive.

Welcome to Diva’s Lair, a private destination created for adults who explore and enjoy the lifestyle with confidence, respect, and unapologetic fun.

Diva’s Lair is a judgment-free, sex-positive space where sexy lifestylers are welcomed, celebrated, and empowered. This is your hideaway — a place to express yourself, connect with like-minded adults, and indulge in the energy of community, curiosity, and play.

Founded by Diva Natalie, Diva’s Lair goes beyond conversation. Natalie and the Lair experience premier lifestyle clubs, curated adult events, and exclusive venues, providing honest reviews and insights to help others explore with confidence. Our goal is education through experience — so members can discover spaces that align with their desires, comfort levels, and curiosity.

Find our events and experiences exclusively through our private Facebook group and SLS 

Birds of a Feather is a Lifestyle Group for Education, Discussions and Gatherings (Vanilla), Kink and Swingers in the Gettysburg, Pennsylvania Area! 

You have to be invited to our page on Facebook by someone already in the group.